Watching an amazing super mom in DVD.... The movie telling about mom's activities. It's begins with a mom who euthanize her kids. Sing a lullaby, blanketing, than take some photograph of their kids face when sleeping (it's kind like happening every night).
When she just try to close her eyes, than the bell is ready to yell her,
"Hey super mom it's time to wake up and do your routine activity". ( sigh it's heard so boring).
In the busy morning, a super mom prepare the kids for school, make a cup of coffee for her husband who ready to go to the office. Unaware she is still wearing her nightdress and her mess hair, when she went to drop off her kids to school. Than the bell yelling again,
"Today is your daughter's birthday party". So, she speed up the car to go home, than take the dog out with her son in her baby sling, before the next 'crazy things' call her.
"Oh My Goodness", that's what I want to say to her.
I mean, I am a house wife too (not intend to compare). For me, being a house wife is not easy, but is not hard to do. Sometimes, to handle many people with different characteristic is not easy, even they are always with you everyday. Like it or not, that is part of your life, which you should like it. A mom is a prestige name for me. It's mean my life will never be lonely in the presence of kids who always calling me with 'mom'. Maybe the situation that makes what we do look different. If you want to make it difficult.. it will happen. But, if you want to make it relax.. just follow your heart to do. I don't intend to knowingly, but this is just my opinion as a house wife too....
Dear Moms,
I know to be a mom is not as easy as that seems. There are so many things that is not visible but we have done... The kids growing up well, the house clean, everything running properly.
Becoming a mom does not mean also losing time for your self. Self indulgent pampering just as important as family. Relaxing your body and mind, something that can help your next job will be easy to do. Sharing your job with husband and others is a good thing.
In our life, sometimes there is something, that we do not want to do it. Than, we can talk about it with the family, that "some one should do it". That's why we have to share, because we need each other. We are just a human being, not a super woman, not a property and not a machine...
Do not be afraid that the family will be ignored, because they will be understand.
Love from a mom will explain to them.
So.. my dear friends.. mom in the world, just smile and do what you should and love to do !!!!
Happy mother's day (every day is mother's day for me) -_*.
Luv,
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